TAKING A SEX HISTORY 1

CASE HISTORY FERNANDO AND MARIA FLASHBACK TO RAPE Sometimes women who have been raped or abused when young, find it impossible to climax even when they enter a loving marriage. Maria had been trying to block out being raped at the age of 15 by a relative. FERNANDO is 30, a tall Spanish American who runs a…

ANNE HOOPER’S ULTIMATE RELATIONSHIP GUIDE

INTRODUCTION 1. ENHANCING SEXUAL INTIMACY The search for sexual intimacy Working at sexual intimacy Making small changes Taking a sex history Getting to Know You touch routines Overcoming inhibition Regaining sexual intimacy The myths of sex Getting comfortable with your body The socio-sexual response cycle Dos and don’ts of sex 2. IMPROVE YOUR SKILLS OF…

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HOW DO YOU COPE WITH OTHER CULTURES? 1 Cultural imperatives 1) Your friend is having his marriage arranged. Do you advise him to a) refuse to have anything to do with it on the grounds such a union must be loveless? b) accept that many of these marriages work extremely well on the grounds of matching background…

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HOW MORAL ARE YOU? 1 Moral imperatives 1) If, on a walk, you chanced upon a couple of youths, apparently sexually assaulting a young woman, would you a) approach them immediately in an attempt to stop them as soon as possible even though this is at considerable personal risk? b) tell yourself the girl is probably enjoying…

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SHOULD I BE SEXUAL? Parental imperatives 1) You believe your father would be pleased if you were very popular with the opposite sex with an eye to possible marriage. You, however, don’t feel quite ready for this yet. Do you a) obediently date friends in whom you’re not particularly interested? b) tell your father to back off…

WHO IS YOUR PARTNER? 1

CASE HISTORY ALINE AND ROBERT SHE SAYS I’M NO GOOD IN BED A slur on the reputation about whether or not we are good lovers hits hard. Pride about ability to be sexy and attractive is a kind of Achilles Heel. When Aline criticised Robert he reacted with extreme depression. ROBERT is 31 and a silver…

SEXUAL INTIMACY

SEXUAL INTIMACY HOW TO DO IT 1. Reassure them. 2. Tell them how successful they are 3 And how the books are. Each individual book culminating with Sexual Intimacy at Frankfurt. 4. Take confidence from this and pursue the line that has been so successful it has been auctioned. 5. The modifications asked for via DK…

THE MYTHS OF SEX 1

CASE HISTORY KATHERINE AM I PROMISCUOUS? What to one generation seems highly promiscuous behaviour, may seem to another a normal way of life. Is either right? Katherine had become acutely worried by her mother’s criticism of her sexual lifestyle. KATHERINE is 24 and a journalist. She has curly, fluffy hair, and wears a traditional raincoat with tweed scarf….

WHAT IS RIGHT AND WRONG FOR ME? 1

CASE STUDY JILL I WON’T SLEEP WITH MY MARRIED LOVER It’s tough, if you’re a red-blooded woman, not to sexually consummate what is a crowning passion. But if your passion is for a married man and if your particular set of principles tells you that sleeping with married men is wrong, you have a hard row to…