HOW CAN BODY LANGUAGE MAKE ME MORE ATTRACTIVE?

CASE HISTORY DORRIE AND BOB WHY HAS SHE GONE OFF SEX? After men and women have lived together for a while they come off their best behaviour and revert to the natural person who has been lurking underneath. In Bob’s case, his ‘natural person’ was childish. And Dorrie didn’t find a ‘child very appealing. BOB is 42…

Chapter 5: LIFELONG SEXUALITY

Older men and women value the closeness of intimacy and sex perhaps more than at any other time in their life. There’s a real sense in which mature couples live from day to day, never being entirely sure how much longer they’ve got with each other a nd this knowledge sharpens their appreciation of such poignant pleasures as…

EMOTIONAL DIFFICULTIES OF THE THIRD AGE

Nurturing, in all its forms, is immensely valuable. Newborns develop in direct relation to the physical cuddling they receive from their mother. Babies develop skills in relation to the attention paid to them by parents. Human beings do not lose this ability to relate and develop because they grow older. They need to feel that someone out there is on…

SEX PROBLEMS OF AGE

Although age does bring about a decline in sexual activity, provided men and women stay in good health, there’s every likelihood they will be able to continue as lovers. There are however, a few sex problems which are specific to older people although not solely confined to this group. The traditional medical line has been “it’s your age. There’s…

SEX IN THE THIRD AGE

The years after 70 feel much the same to people emotionally as did the years around 20 and 30. The difference is that the face which looks back at you from the bathroom mirror appears to be that of somebody else. This can be disconcerting when you feel the same young person inside that you ever were. When it…

CONSTRUCTIVE AIMS FOR LONGTERM SEXUALITY

Every single person is unique in their character, their sex drive and in the combination they form with their partner. This means there are no norms therefore for long-term love-making. But most people want to enjoy some physical intimacy in their mature years. Since maturer individuals are not subject to the same sex pressures as younger, the number of…

Chapter 5: LIFELONG SEXUALITY

Older men and women value the closeness of intimacy and sex perhaps more than at any other time in their life. There’s a real sense in which mature couples live from day to day, never being entirely sure how much longer they’ve got with each other and this knowledge sharpens their appreciation of such poignant pleasures as sex….

COMPARING BELIEF SYSTEMS 1

CASE HISTORY TED AND ROXY THE SEXUAL OVER-DOSE A certain amount of settling down is to be expected at the beginning of a long-term sexual relationship. But Roxy felt rejected because Ted didn’t want asmuch sex as she did after only six months together. TED is 27, an academic with an engaging smile, a twinkle…

WHO AM I? BIRTH ORDER 1

CASE HISTORY VANESSA AND ROY HE EVEN ARGUES ABOUT SEX POSITIONS Vanessa and Roy spent most of their time quarrelling and Roy was at the end of his tether. It didn’t seem to matter what the arguments were over, Vanesssa seemed incapable of ever conceding he could be right. ROY is 25 and an officer in the…

Body Language in Bed

CASE HISTORY TOM SHE STARTS WITHOUT ME  We’ve learned in the past 20 years to become much more comfortable with the subject of masturbation. These days we mainly accept it as a normal part of life. But in Tom’s relationship, masturbation began to get in the way.  TOM is 25 and a film…