PART THREE: PARTNERS AND FRIENDS

INTRO Around the time that children mature and start leaving home, couples are faced with a potentially exciting task.  It’s sad of course when the focus of family life changes but the transition also offers men and women the chance to be there exclusively for each other a second time around.    Most of us know…

MAKE MASSAGE MEMORABLE

There’s nothing quite like the sensation of warm hands on receptive body.  Touch nurtures to the point of giving life. Babies in orphanages gain the will to live when concerned carers caress and play with them.  Patients in comas recover more rapidly when regularly touched by nurses. And dead marriages return to life when subjected…

SEXUAL MEDITATIONS

When I trained with massage master Ray Stubbs in San Francisco in the 1970s, I was taught that for a massage or sexual encounter to feel beautiful, it helped to think beautiful first.  Where massage was concerned Ray started off his sessions with a little flute music and then talked his willing victims through a…

THE ENERGY SKIM

One of the few problems thrown out by massage is in knowing what to do with all that energy once it’s been generated in your partner’s body.  If your by now glowing body has been worked on by your lover of course you can chose to culminate in a wonderful climax.  But if climax is…

EASTERN DISCIPLINE

Thousands of years ago the ancient Taoists of China perceived the body as possessing an energy flow which could be both used and renewed.  Just as there are  meridian points across the body, which can be tapped or stimulated by acupuncture in order to restore a healthy balance of energy, so too, the Taoist philosophers…

THE THREE-HANDED MASSAGE

US master of massage Ray Stubbs was the man responsible for sensitively developing the Three-Handed Massage.  His concept was to combine the relaxed sensuality of massage with the gentle touch of intercourse.  The Taoist theory is that penis and vagina contain certain meridian (energy) points.  Ray used this idea to bring to life internal aspects…

NOTES ON OPTIMUM HEALTH

Overall impression. Mainly interesting reading although needs good editing to pull together and needs extra chapters such as; Staying Attractive  – to include cosmetic surgery and hormones.  Justification for this chapter is emotional well-being. Stressors and Lifestyle. This would replace Chapter 4 and would include the info on smoking and alcohol (and pot smoking) plus…

NINE LEVELS

THE NINE LEVELS OF ORGASM We ignorant Westerners have little understanding of the quality of woman’s orgasm.  Even though clinical observation shows that women experience climaxes consisting of many differing lengths and strengths, in a variety of body sites, somehow this has taken its time to filter through to the ordinary man and woman in…

INTRODUCTION

If the idea of a sexual activity pack sounds outrageous, then read on. Because that is what this is – an outrageous package.  In it you will find something that I can suggest but only you can put into action – the activity of tapping in to your sexual energy.  And sexual energy is a…

JOURNEY IN THE INTERIOR

A MYSTICAL JOURNEY IN ALIEN LANDSCAPE When reading the meditation out loud, slow the words down and once you have placed an idea or a command in your partner’s head, pause.  Give him/her time to visualise what you have been describing.  If you read the meditations quickly with no pauses, you will find each takes…